Looking for Love……
Okay folks its February, already. We are a few days from Valentines day, the day of love!!!! This will either make you feel good or not!! If you find your self without your ‘soulmate’ don’t be discouraged. I know easy for me to say, I have been blessed with a wonderful man for 27 years now. For you who are looking or in a relationship, the Angels want to give you some pointers to help move this process along to getting what you need, even if you didn’t know you needed it..
First of all, I don’t believe in ‘soulmates’, the one and only that will be your other half. Stop that, there are many wonderful people out there that are open to have a loving relationship.
Next ‘stop looking’!!!! Yes, that’s right, quit! The more you push and look the more you will miss what is right there or what the Angels are trying to show you or tell you! Enjoy being where you are, doing what you are doing and everyday say “I am grateful for my wonderful loving relationship, I deserve to be loved and adored!! Thank you Angels!!”
Stop looking for a person who is like you, you know, same spiritual beliefs, same type of entertainment, same, same, same!!! Variety is the spice of life, someone who is different from you can add so much to opening your life to new experiences and new ways of looking at things.
Now, spiritual beliefs are a personal journey and no 2 people make that journey in the same way. When I met my husband, he told me he didn’t believe in anything. We have come to this same wonderful, spiritual frequency over the years but in completely different ways. For instance, when I was first on my journey, I studied and studied, meditated, worked at clearing my ‘stuff’, then the aha moment would come. I shared my aha moment and he would say, “oh, yeah, I came to that same conclusion fishing the other day”. Okay!!!
It is important that you hold your ever changing, ever increasing frequency, close to your heart. You have your journey, continue to be on it. When you find Mr. or Miss Wonderful and you may not have the exact same beliefs don’t try to convert him or her. Live in your energy with that person and allow the Angels and that Divine frequency to make the changes you both need. Its similar to when women live together they end up having their periods at the same time, yes, the best example I could come up with and so true. Energy my friends, in a love relationship allow the one you love to be who they are, the most wonderful gift you can give anyone. The frequency will automatically raise you both up to the higher level, each in your own way.
Now, about all the other stuff, whether in a relationship or wanting one. First my friend its all about you.
Make that list on what you want, you know what you don’t want, especially if you have been married for a while or had those ‘dating experiences.’ Be specific, the Universe is very literal. Tall, dark and handsome yes, okay, and don’t forget financially secure, and open to the spiritual. It is time to claim, “I give intent to be loved and adored”, no more settling,know you can get and deserve the very best, got it?!?
No matter who you are or what you want in a relationship, you need to know that you are one of a kind, unique and special, extraordinary!! No chasing someone to make them love you, if they don’t like you, kick them to the curb!!! Sometimes energy just doesn’t match. This is no ones fault, it just is! If your energy is on that person you are chasing, you could miss the really great one, you won’t see him or her at all, because your energy is elsewhere being wasted.
One last thing, you need to be open to receive! Oh, yes, you can give very well! You are used to taking care of someone, feeding someones ego, constantly caring more than your half of the relationship! But you suck at receiving!!! Now get this really, really clear, the stronger you are, the more determined you are to have a relationship at any cost, you know who you are, the more you will give yourself away!! You have to be able to receive love, caring, laughter, passion…..RECEIVE!!!! No more one sided relationships. With all those other affirmations and intents add this “I give intent to receive and give love”.
No more martyrdom, victim hood or self sacrifice.
Now my friends, go and be happy, knowing you are extraordinary, receiving love and abundance in all forms!! Love, Joy, Peace, Prosperity, Health!!! The Angels applaud you!!!